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hey guys!

Just wanted to let you know that after we got the news about Mr. R's dad we left for Georgia the next day--*DRIVING* We are here now, totally exhausted, so I'll catch up on comments soon--thank you, folks who left lovely comments on Public Enemies! :)

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tabaqui
Aug. 29th, 2015 04:14 am (UTC)
Oh, goodness. You guys take care of yourselves and don't get totally overwhelmed, now!

And please pass along my sincere condolences to Mr. R. I am so very, very sorry for his loss. Losing your dad...that just sucks so hard.
*love and blessings to you both*
roxymissrose
Aug. 29th, 2015 03:20 pm (UTC)
I will, thank you, love! He's handling it pretty well, considering--I think there's just so much stuff going on he hasn't really processed it yet. I feel like a bad person, but I am so dreading the funeral.
tabaqui
Aug. 29th, 2015 03:35 pm (UTC)
You are *not* a bad person. Funeral's suck. So glad we didn't have one for my dad. He was cremated, and we just had a memorial like three weeks later, with food and friends. Much, much better.

All that laying out and viewing and crap....*shudders*. Horrible.

Cat's dad just died, too, as you probably remember, and it was the same - he and his brother and sister were so caught *up* in all the crap, they didn't really process anything until that day, and then they all just broke down.

But...it does feel good to cry and laugh and *grieve*. It's a good, cleansing thing.

*smishes*
*luffs muchly*

You're his rock right now, you know. You can do it.
roxymissrose
Aug. 30th, 2015 04:44 am (UTC)
I keep thinking of Cat and wondering how he's doing. This is such a heavy thing, and folks seem to expect a person to get over it quickly. But it hangs on and on, kind of jumping out at you when you least expect it.

So, hugs to you, double hugs to him and *thank* you. ♥ ♥
daisydumont
Aug. 29th, 2015 07:13 pm (UTC)
That's the way it was when my mom died -- I had to rush home, and it took days for reality to sink in. My sympathies to Mr. Roxy and you and to all the family on your loss. It's a transition, when that generation moves on. <3
roxymissrose
Aug. 30th, 2015 04:46 am (UTC)
omgosh, yes. We're them now. No one left to pat us on the back and tell us to buck up, except each other.

bubblesbrnaid
Aug. 29th, 2015 06:56 am (UTC)
Yikes. That's a long drive from here, I hate to think how far it is from where you started.

Rest well.
roxymissrose
Aug. 29th, 2015 03:23 pm (UTC)
Even with an overnight stop in Virginia, it was a drive from hell. I hated it when I was in my twenties, and now in my sixties, it's just an extended slow torture. On the plus side...wait. No plus.
bubblesbrnaid
Aug. 29th, 2015 08:15 pm (UTC)
Yeah, especially not with the reasons behind this trip. That just makes a long trip worse.
oldbatj
Aug. 29th, 2015 05:36 pm (UTC)
Roxy, so very sorry to hear the sad news of Mr R's daddy passing away. It was a true blessing that he was surrounded by loving faces at the time however. So glad Mr R has your warm arms for his comfort.

Drive carefully... and please know there are many good wishes and supportive prayers going out to and for you and your family members.
roxymissrose
Aug. 30th, 2015 04:33 am (UTC)
*HUGS*

Thank you so much--we all appreciate your kindness. ♥
sillie82
Aug. 29th, 2015 07:48 pm (UTC)
*hugs*
roxymissrose
Aug. 30th, 2015 04:33 am (UTC)
*HUGBACK*

Thank you so much!
rosy5000
Aug. 29th, 2015 08:24 pm (UTC)
Sending lots of love and hugs for you, Mr. R., BG and the rest of the family from my whole family. We're keeping you all in our thoughts. *hugs* ♥
roxymissrose
Aug. 30th, 2015 04:35 am (UTC)
Please tell your family thanks so much, also tell your folks I said thank you for *you*, because you're one hell of an amazing person. ♥ ♥
luvmax1
Aug. 29th, 2015 09:19 pm (UTC)
I'm so sorry for your loss, Roxy. Please pass on my condolences to your husband. *Hugs*
roxymissrose
Aug. 30th, 2015 04:36 am (UTC)
I will--and thank you, love. ♥
tasabian
Aug. 29th, 2015 10:28 pm (UTC)
My condolences to Mr. R. Even if a passing is not unexpected, that doesn't at all diminish the pain of it.

I hope that once you are back home you can both treat yourselves a little, as a reward for getting through a rough time.
roxymissrose
Aug. 30th, 2015 04:38 am (UTC)
*HUGS*

Thank you so much, my dear. I do hope I can talk him into taking a day or two to recover after this.
clarkscherry
Aug. 30th, 2015 12:23 am (UTC)
Sorry for your and Mr. R's loss.
roxymissrose
Aug. 30th, 2015 04:39 am (UTC)
Thank you, love.

&hearts&
silsbee329
Aug. 30th, 2015 12:50 am (UTC)
Sending hugs to you all. <3
roxymissrose
Aug. 30th, 2015 04:41 am (UTC)
Thank you so much, sweetie. We really appreciate your kind thoughts. It's been rough for him, but he's pushing on through. ♥
supernutjapan
Aug. 30th, 2015 02:23 pm (UTC)
So sorry to hear about Mr. R's dad's passing. *hugs you both*
beeej
Aug. 31st, 2015 03:13 am (UTC)
So very sorry, Roxy. Hug Mr. R. for me.
capnzebbie
Sep. 1st, 2015 03:23 am (UTC)
*hugs*
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